One of my old friends died a couple of years ago and I have no clue how (I hadn't spoken to Kevin in years and his folks didn't know me) and I still wonder what actually happened. None of the obituaries online mention how and that is... frustrating.

Yup -- that's part of what started this for me; people dying and their LJ doesn't even have a final post, or it has a final post, but it's by (obvious) mundanes and they don't provide real answers...

So, does Jackie have your passwords?