My best friend and I were talking about this just the other day, as we were sorting through fannish stuff from a friend of ours who passed away. I do think it's important not just to have a "porn buddy" to clear out the dirty stuff, but also to make sure fannish stuff gets to a good home and not just dumped in the garbage because our mundane families didn't know what to do with it (which is why we went up to help clean out our friend's house, taking a lot of stress off the actual executor who didn't know what half this stuff was).

I'm pretty sure she knows most of my passwords already, but now that you mention it, making a list is probably a pretty good idea. Heck, I'm not even sure I know all my passwords anymore!